Money / Career / Friends/Family

Its really a very tough choice to make ...
Money is the means on which you live.... they say "No money, no honey" ...so early in life, you do require some money... to set up your honey factory ...but for how long can you continue ?? ... Not much .. you will get mentally tired accumulating such stuff... unless it becomes your only motive in life....
A good career is what you aspire for. You look forward to great things happening professionally to you... you have great dreams, great ambitions .... and once you fulfill one... you target the higher one ....but for how long ?? There will come a time in life when other things will take up higher priority in life than your career goals .. then ???
Your friends are there around you to support you at our time of problems and bring you out of the abyss ...they listen to you...and give you advices .. share your worries and your happineess ....but for how long ?? Sooner or later, they are going to start their own families and you will recede to the background... who will support you then ?? You have to find that out ....
Your family is perhaps the best thing that happened to you ....they think about you ..inspire and motivate you ... but then ... theres a limit to it ...beyond a certain point, you dont feel that these advices are applicable to you ...you sulk .. you revolt.... or you meekly surrender and do whatever they say .... But for how long ?? ... 20 or 30 years down the line, they will pass away .. leaving fond memories....and you have to take your own decision ...
So finally ... YOU have to decide whats your PRESENT priority and how it can transform smoothly into the future ....You have pass through all these stages.. and leave one behind the other at their own time. Each period has to be enjoyed at their appropriate time ....
LET THE MIND RULE

There's a child in Everyone ..

Some of the very thoughts that come when you think of a child is the innocent creature that god has created. Someone who is unaware of this big bad world and he dreams .... dreams that stretch from the sky to the seas .. crossing endless horizons .... taking a peek at things lying all around, without 'trying to realize what they are!
Antics of children make others happy.... it brings in a relief of smile on the face of the ever tired, ever frustrated people .... depressed with their daily run of life ...
I choose this characteristic which I want to carry on for ever. Its really great to bring smiles on the face of people, without making them realize that you are trying hard to do so .... a huge burden is lightened. Make all your weaknesses your strength....I call this weakness, because in today's world, love has lost its value.... it is considered a weakness by most, but I feel that this love can be moulded to bring out the best in people !!
A small sentence may strike a chord in the heart. In fact it just creates a small flutter, when you say it in a funny tone, but when you think over it, it has got some deep meaning. So when you behave like a child, its upto the people around you to interpret it in their own manner. You have to be consistent in keeping people around you jolly and in a very jovial mood. But beneath this layer is a person full of emotions and sentiments which oozes out when squeezed.....

When I am in Love !!!!

What happens when I am in love ? Is it the first time this is happening to me ? No ... not at all .... You cannot exactly define what is love .. there is a very thin line that exists between friendship, love, affection, emotion etc. The following are the symptoms which come up when you pass through these stages....

1. You think of her... whenever you dont have no "work"
2. You try to imagine the moments of interaction ...
3. You try to find the good qualitites in her...
4. You wait impatiently for her mail
5. You wait impatiently for her SMS
6. You try to learn more about her
7. You are so curious to dwelve into her personal ife
8. You tend to he happy , when she is around
9. You tend to have a heavy heart when she is not around
10. You exclaim why God hasn't made every lady like her
11. You become angry when she hides things from you
12. You feel you cannot live without her
13. You are happy to spend time with her alone
14. You don't feel how time has passed by , with her around you and you start looking forward to the next meeting
15. You contemplate what she might be thinking of you and try to gather information on the matter from indirect sources
16. You assure yourself that she is a good friend only
17. Every action seems to be a signal for you that the person is thinking about you
18. You are over awed with her skills, whatever they may be....
19. You feel terrible, try to retract into your shell, when your calculations and assumptions go wrong about her
20. You start to feel jealous, when someone else is around her...
21. You want to keep track of her whereabouts ..
22. You try to avoid thoughts about the time when you will be separated ..

This can go on and on ....
There is no end to it ....You can flirt around with many people at the same time , but deep within, inside the core, that strong bond attacts you towards that person , with whom you are in love. You forget to take her approaches in the same sense as other relations. You expect more. You think bigger things.
Your peace of mind is disturbed. The only thought that overrides evrything is HER.

Love you Darling. Wherever you are. Only I know deep within myself, how much I love you :)