Thinking Hat

A platform to pen down my personal opinions and random thoughts. If you have to leave a comment, then get to the seed of what i am trying to say. Please dont give superflous comments or take out personal grudge in my blog.

Sunday, January 06, 2008

When I am in Love !!!!

What happens when I am in love ? Is it the first time this is happening to me ? No ... not at all .... You cannot exactly define what is love .. there is a very thin line that exists between friendship, love, affection, emotion etc. The following are the symptoms which come up when you pass through these stages....

1. You think of her... whenever you dont have no "work"
2. You try to imagine the moments of interaction ...
3. You try to find the good qualitites in her...
4. You wait impatiently for her mail
5. You wait impatiently for her SMS
6. You try to learn more about her
7. You are so curious to dwelve into her personal ife
8. You tend to he happy , when she is around
9. You tend to have a heavy heart when she is not around
10. You exclaim why God hasn't made every lady like her
11. You become angry when she hides things from you
12. You feel you cannot live without her
13. You are happy to spend time with her alone
14. You don't feel how time has passed by , with her around you and you start looking forward to the next meeting
15. You contemplate what she might be thinking of you and try to gather information on the matter from indirect sources
16. You assure yourself that she is a good friend only
17. Every action seems to be a signal for you that the person is thinking about you
18. You are over awed with her skills, whatever they may be....
19. You feel terrible, try to retract into your shell, when your calculations and assumptions go wrong about her
20. You start to feel jealous, when someone else is around her...
21. You want to keep track of her whereabouts ..
22. You try to avoid thoughts about the time when you will be separated ..

This can go on and on ....
There is no end to it ....You can flirt around with many people at the same time , but deep within, inside the core, that strong bond attacts you towards that person , with whom you are in love. You forget to take her approaches in the same sense as other relations. You expect more. You think bigger things.
Your peace of mind is disturbed. The only thought that overrides evrything is HER.

Love you Darling. Wherever you are. Only I know deep within myself, how much I love you :)

1 Comments:

  • At Thursday, January 15, 2009 5:20:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Mr.S it seems you love someone very much, but that person did not reciprocate the same feeling towards you. It really hurts when this happens. But i still wonder that, when you known the feeling of indifference is so painful then why are you so rude and indifferent towards someone who cares for you????

     

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